Tenacities of life Page #2

Life's hardships

• Satire

								


Taking a leap of faith I decided to turn a part of my house into an orphanage but all of the children there for some reason call me mom. Most people say I exert a lot of effort into my orphanage and show these children the love that they ought to be shown. The love that they solely desire and deserve. Trying so hard to change that aspect of your life that you resent a lot seems to be an easy job as long as you have enough courage, resilience and hope, hope that you wont make the same mistakes as those that turned your life into a nightmare.

It is the force of negativity and resentment that pushes us to become courageous, resilient and hopeful. That zeal and desire to change circumstances, to better our own lives and the lives of others facing the same trauma as we are. I found the exact same attributes in me, these have moulded me into the person I am today. Spiteful, unwanted teenager turned into courageous, resilient and hopeful social worker and psychology tycoon, fearing no one and nothing. More so never letting people or anything stand in the way of my dreams, hopes and aspirations, for I am a victor and I have fought to shine in the face of the earth

Despite the changes in my life still, broken heart, chills to the spine .A vacuum in the heart, place all quiet. Lovely were the nights spent in the dome shaped heart? Fear of the unknown strikes hard, strikes hard at the core of the heart. Will she ever come back or will she forever hide .Struck by depression, the remedy is love .O I have lost the one I so loved. Is it a nightmare or is it reality , the feeling is not fading but from my heart the love is .My heart throbs in anguish and pain .Forever I shall long for the one my heart desires I shall source the world for my beloved mother. Close up reality she is the only one, the only one I ever had without her I grew up traumatised .Broken is the heart, vacuumed is the soul .What a nightmare! Feels like I am six feet under, covered in earth, heart melting away .Her beautiful sweet papaya love fading away.


When faced with challenges there is nothing petrifying than not knowing. When we lack control over a situation theres no clear path to moving forward in strength. Diving into ambiguity and enduring the storm could be the only option. And still we overcome. Scholars claim that it is ones reaction to adversity itself that determines how their lifes story will develop. From a different angle directed to the exact same scenarios of life, Nelson Mandela ascertains that a person should not be judged by their success but by the number of times they have fallen down and got back up again.



It is this journey in which shattered souls are made whole again. Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most immense characters are parched with scars. Indeed the world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places. It is this journey in which wounds are healed and pain is finally replaced with love and peace. Life is interesting  in the end, some of your greatest pains become your greatest strengths.it is our attitude towards events, not events themselves, which we can control. 

Hope played a fundamental part in retaining my mental health. It gave me a sense of tenacity and direction, lightening misery and helplessness. By nurturing a positive outlook, hope reduced stress, unease, and melancholy, promoting overall emotional resilience. In facing challenges and obstacles, hope empowered me to endure through difficult situations. It implanted confidence in my ability to overcome challenges and become accustomed to changing situations, improving resilience and emotional steadiness.

It motivated me to set and tail significant goals, motivating personal growth and development. By foreseeing a brighter future and believing in the possibility of positive aftermaths, I inspired myself to take upbeat steps toward recognizing my ambitions, nurturing a sense of authorization and self-actualization.
Thereafter reinforced social relationships by nurturing trust, compassion, and joint support. Through shared hopes and dreams, I connected on a deeper level, offered encouragement and solidarity in times of need. Hope became a uniting force in domestic, communal, and proficient settings, nurturing teamwork and shared action toward common goals.
Resilience in Adversity: During times of crisis and uncertainty, hope was a lifeline, empowering me to persevere through adversity. Hope empowered me to adapt to changing circumstances, solve problems artistically, and appear stronger from harsh conditions by building resilience and inventiveness.


Nothing is by its own nature appalling, even death itself is terrible if we fear it, no matter how much falls on us, we keep plowing ahead. That's the only way to keep roads clear.
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